HOME WRECKER

A mistress. A woman who steals another woman's man. Yes, that's what she is called by some. Home wrecker. Family destroyer. And some other terms you can associate with the word.

            Selfish. Yes, that's what she is. Thinking of her only happiness and intentions. Enjoying herself while that man's family is in hell. Think first. Think of the family that would be destroyed because of your selfishness. Put yourself in the shoes of that original woman's man. A woman who carries a pain in her heart even if she's asleep. A deep cut, that even she, doesn't know how to handle. A woman who'd rather choose to die than see her family destroyed. A woman who loves her man deeply but bears all the pain of betrayal.

            Think about it. Place yourself in her place. Think of how your family would handle the pain and hatred. The fragile hearts of the children that would be broken. The happy family that they are when you haven't enter the scene, yet. The presence of their love, happiness, and contentment when they are complete. The wholeness of the family. The completeness of their soul.

            Wouldn't you share a similar feeling with her if you're on her place? Could you bear it all? Can you see right through her soul and feel what she feels? Her family being broken. Laughter to sorrow. Smile to tears. Love to hatred. Wouldn't you feel empty? Like you've been beaten physically and emotionally? Yes, you love the man. How much more the original woman? Do you think he is not that important to her? To her children?  

            Think. Think. Think. Think over it a thousand times. It is not easy. The pain and betrayal. It's hard to handle. And, it never will be. It will kill you softly. It will ruin you and you'll never know how far it will take you. Look at the both sides of a coin. Weigh your choice.

            It does not only happen to a couple. But, to everyone who loves their man/woman truly and deeply. Try to reflect on this. Consider your life's purpose if you live like this.